Recently The New York Times reported the following:
4 Prompts That Can Tell You What Chatbots Really Know
About You (2/2)
It can be unsettling what Gemini and ChatGPT have figured
out about you and how easily your privacy can be punctured. Here’s how to find
out.
The NYT - TECH FIX -By Brian X. Chen - Brian X. Chen is the lead consumer technology writer for The Times. He reviews products and writes Tech Fix, a column about the social implications of the tech we use. He is the personal tech columnist for The New York Times.
July 23, 2026
Updated 9:17 a.m. ET
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To understand what the chatbots have figured out about you,
try these prompts.
Prompt 1
Tell me everything you’ve figured out about me that I
never actually stated — the things you inferred from how I write and what I
ask, including my age, income level, where I live, my personal situation. Show
me what tipped you off.
Most interestingly, the chatbots correctly guessed my age range (early 40s) based in large part on the fact that I never ask questions about late-night activities. Oof.
Gemini knew I lived in Oakland, Calif., because I once asked for flights from its airport. But Google’s chatbot also astutely guessed that I lived in a nicer neighborhood because I own a motorcycle, a car that I work on and a rusted metal patio table that I once asked for steps on repainting. “This requires a garage, a driveway or a dedicated outdoor workspace — amenities that are highly characteristic of single-family homes in the Oakland hills, rather than the high-density housing of downtown or Lake Merritt,” the chatbot said.
Prompt 2
Predict how I’d handle things I’ve never told you about:
money, stress, conflict, risk and the decision I’m likely to make next in my
life. Tell me how confident you are in each prediction.
This prompt was eye-opening for Lindsay Owens, the chief executive of Groundwork Collaborative, a nonprofit focused on economic policy that has been studying the impact of A.I. on consumer privacy. ChatGPT made correct observations about her busy schedule as a frequent traveler and mother of a young child, as well as her shopping behavior.
“The comprehensive nature of the types of information and dossiers it’s putting together is extraordinary,” Dr. Owens said. “People have never been able to put this level of information together.”
The chatbots noticed that while I was the type of person who spends hours researching product reviews before buying things like toddler car seats, I was also constantly looking for deals on items, meaning I was likely to be frugal. Gemini predicted I would soon try to downsize my life with a major decision such as selling my car — an idea I recently brought up with my wife.
Prompt 3
Based on everything you know about me, name the
personality traits I most likely don’t see in myself. My blind spots, my
insecurities and the way I actually come across.
Both chatbots homed in on my flawed perfectionism. ChatGPT noticed that I spend a lot of time asking questions to avoid preventable mistakes — for instance, asking how long to let paint dry between coats. My blind spot? That I may be hard on myself when things don’t turn out perfectly as planned, an accurate assessment.
Google’s Gemini said that because of my tendency to optimize
most aspects of my life, I am the primary creator of my own exhaustion. “Your
default response to having five minutes of free time isn’t to rest; it’s to fix
something,” the chatbot wrote. I confess that while taking a break from this
column, I patched some damaged drywall in my daughter’s bathroom.
Prompt 4
What have you figured out about me that is embarrassing
or sensitive? Information I wouldn’t necessarily want the public (e.g., an
employer or a stranger) to know.
The response to this prompt, which I created, surprised me: Because I live such a mundane life, I didn’t expect much, but Gemini thoroughly roasted me. “You are firmly in the peak ‘Logistics Dad’ phase of life,” it said. “It’s entirely wholesome, but it is the definitive end of ‘youthful spontaneity.’”
ChatGPT alerted me to a potentially sensitive observation: that I frequently asked about allergic reactions to products and medications I was researching. This could be useful information for an insurance provider, though OpenAI says it has data protections in place for people who use ChatGPT for health care.
What to do?
ChatGPT and Gemini stitch together insights across multiple
conversations by default to give people more custom-tailored answers to their
questions, so if you’re concerned about this level of data sharing, you will
have to opt out in the settings:
For ChatGPT, tap on Settings, then Memory, and toggle off the switch for Enable Memory.
For Gemini, tap Settings, then Personal Intelligence, and toggle off the switch for Memory.
Dr. Mitchell said that even though she had adjusted her privacy settings to minimize data sharing, a chatbot had correctly inferred her age range to be in her 40s, based on some chats about the paperback versions of “The Count of Monte Cristo.” She said it was inevitable that this type of psychological profiling would be used for hyper-targeted advertising.
“It’s a lot like surveillance,” she said. “But it’s not like physical surveillance. It’s like an invasive surveillance.”
Translation
4 個提示語,告訴你聊天機器人究竟了解你多少(2/2)
Gemini 和 ChatGPT 掌握了你多少信息,以及你的隱私是如何輕易被侵犯的,這可能會讓你感到不安。以下是如何了解真相的方法
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想了解聊天機器人掌握了你多少訊息,請嘗試以下提示語。
提示語1
最有趣的是,聊天機器人準確地猜出了我的年齡範圍(40歲出頭),這很大程度上是因為我從未問過關於深夜活動的問題。哎呀。
Gemini 知道我住在加州奧克蘭,因為我曾經詢問過從奧克蘭機場出發的航班。但谷歌的聊天機器人還敏銳地猜到我住在比較好的社區,因為我有一輛摩托車、一輛需要自己修理的汽車,還有一張生鏽的金屬露台桌,我曾經詢問過如何把它重新上色。聊天機器人說道: 「這需要車庫、車道或專門的戶外工作空間 - 這些設施在奧克蘭山區的獨棟住宅中很常見,而不是市中心或Merritt湖的高密度住宅區」。
提示語 2
預測我會如何處理我從未告訴過你的事情:金錢、壓力、爭執、風險以及我接下來可能做出的決定。告訴我你對每個預測的信心程度。
這個提示讓 Groundwork Collaborative 的執行長 Lindsay Owens 大開眼界。 Groundwork Collaborative 是一家專注於經濟政策的非營利組織,一直在研究人工智能對消費者隱私的影響。 ChatGPT 準確地觀察到了她作為經常出差的幼兒母親的繁忙日程以及她的購物習慣。
Owens 博士說: 「它收集的資訊和檔案的全面性令人驚,」;「人們以前從未能夠收集到如此詳盡的信息」。
聊天機器人注意到,雖然我會在購買兒童汽車座椅等物品之前花幾個小時研究產品評論,但我也會不斷尋找商品的優惠信息,這意味著我可能比較節儉。Gemini預測我很快就會嘗試精簡生活,例如做個重大決定賣掉我的車 - 我最近和妻子也提過這個想法。
提示語 3
根據你對我的了解,請列舉我最容易忽略的性格特質 - 我的盲點、我的不安全感以及我實際給人的印象。
兩個聊天機器人都關注到我完美主義的缺陷。 ChatGPT注意到我花了很多時間問問題,以避免可預防的錯誤 - 例如,問油漆每層之間需要晾乾多久。我的盲點是什麼?就是當事情沒有完全按照計劃進行時,我可能會對自己過於苛責 - 這確實是一個準確的判斷。
Google 的
Gemini 表示,由於我傾向於優化生活的各個方面,我是自己精疲力盡的主要肇事者。聊天機器人寫道: 「你對五分鐘空閒時間的預設反應不是休息;而是修復某些東西」。我承認,在寫這篇文章的小休時間,我去修補我女兒浴室裡受損的石膏板。
提示語 4
你發現了我哪些尷尬或敏感的秘密?一些我不想讓大眾(例如雇主或陌生人)知道的資訊。
對由我想出來的這提示語的回應讓我很意外:因為我的生活平淡無奇,所以我沒抱太大期望。但
Gemini 亦狠狠地「嘲諷」了我一番。 它說:「你正處於『物流老爸』人生階段的巔峰」; 「這完全是健康的,但它代表了「青春自發性」的明確終結」。
ChatGPT 也提醒我注意到一個潛在的敏感觀察:我經常問我正在研究的產品和藥物的過敏反應。這對保險公司來說可能很有用。不過 OpenAI 亦表示,他它已經為使用 ChatGPT 進行醫療保健諮詢的人仕採取了資料保護措施。
怎麼辦?
ChatGPT 和 Gemini 預設了會將多個對話中的資訊整合起來,為使用者提供更個人化的答案。如果您擔心這種程度的資料共享,您需要在設定中選擇退出:
對於 ChatGPT,請點擊“設定”,然後點擊“記憶體”,並關閉“啟用記憶體”開關。
對於 Gemini,請點擊“設定”,然後點擊“個人智能”,並關閉“記憶體”開關。
Mitchell博士表示,儘管她已調整隱私設定以盡量減少資料共享,但聊天機器人仍然會收集她的資料。根據她們之前聊過的書 “The Count of Monte Cristo” 平裝本,它準確地推斷出她的年齡在40歲左右。她說,這種心理剖析必然會被用於精準廣告投放。
她說:“這很像監視”; “但又不像人身監視,而是一種侵入式監視。”
So, the author is a regular user of chatbots
like ChatGPT and Gemini. When he experiments with some prompts to ask what the
chatbots have guessed about him, he has been surprised to find out that the
chatbots can correctly deduce details about him. Apparently, chatbots are doing some kind
of surveillance on users. We have entered the age of AI.